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100 Questions

  1. What have you come to appreciate about me that you didn't when we first became friends?

  2. What do your friends love you in spite of?

  3. what have you worked the hardest to change about yourself?

  4. are you working hard to change anything about yourself now?

  5. what have you come to understand about yourself over the last couple years?

  6. what do you appreciate about yourself that other people don't always notice?

  7. what's something you never thought you could do, but did?

  8. When’s the last time you surprised yourself?

  9. Has anything inspired you recently?

  10. what's something you wanted to change about yourself but later came to accept?

  11. What do you want me to think of you?

  12. Is there a version of yourself you're afraid to become?

  13. What trait do you most admire in others that you wouldn't really want to have in yourself?

  14. Which of your friends are you most proud of?

  15. Which compliments make you feel best?

  16. Which compliments (that you get regularly) do you not like that much?

  17. What's something about yourself you've had trouble accepting (but still want to)?

  18. What do you think your closest friends would most like to change about you?

  19. Let's say you're 120 and looking back at your life. what would it need to have included for you to feel completely satisfied with it?

  20. What is the most exciting part of the trajectory you're currently on?

  21. What's the difference between who you are and the kind of person a younger you wished you would be?

  22. When do you feel like you belong? / What was the last time you felt a particular sense of belonging?

  23. Can you describe a day you’d be willing to have over and over for the rest of your life?

  24. If we asked the person who loved you most what it is they love about you, what do you think they'd say?

  25. ‎What are some of your most important identities, and what are some misconceptions you think people that aren’t from that background have about it?

  26. Which parts of yourself do you feel like you understand least?

  27. Describe a moment when you felt particularly yourself

  28. What’s something you’ve done that absolutely terrified you?

  29. Whose validation makes you feel best?

  30. Whose validation do you wish you wanted less?

  31. What’s the last especially emotional movie TV or book experience you can remember?

  32. What are some of the defining traits of your family? Your friend group?

  33. Which member of your family do you have the most contentious relationship with and why?

  34. What do you nerd out about and how did that interest develop?

  35. When do you feel most in touch with your inner-child?

  36. Have you experienced any exceptional acts of kindness from a stranger before?

  37. What is your favorite memory of me?

  38. What do you think I like most about you?

  39. How has your life been different than what you’d imagined?

  40. How would you like to be remembered?

  41. If this was to be our very last conversation, is there anything you’d want to say to me, or me to you?

  42. What qualities do you judge most in other people?

  43. What qualities do you judge most about yourself?

  44. What are you interested in that most people aren’t?

  45. Are there any aspects of yourself you know should change, but haven’t started working on?

  46. What’s the hardest you’ve ever worked?

  47. If you had to take an entirely new path from the one you’ve chosen, what path would it be and why?

  48. What do you think your most and least noticeable insecurities are?

  49. What is an insecurity of mine you’ve noticed?

  50. What is something you only recently formed an opinion about?

  51. What mistakes do you make over and over again?

  52. What have you created that you’re most proud of?

  53. What’s the best thing you got from your parents?

  54. What are your comedy influences?

  55. What movies, TV, or books do you cherish/consider a part of who you are?

  56. What do you give good recommendations about?

  57. Is there anything you one day hope to be an expert in?

  58. Is there anything you value now that you hope you won’t value in the future?

  59. Is there anything you don’t value now that you hope you’ll value in the future?

  60. In what areas of your life (if any) do you feel a sense of ambition? What does that mean to you?

  61. What was the last rant you went on?

  62. Which of your traits are you most hoping to pass down to your children (or pets, if no children. [Or local goonies-style friend group you're a surrogate parent for, if no pets])

  63. Do you feel a special connection to any historical periods?

  64. Are there any periods of history you'd like to learn more about? Why?

  65. Do you feel like your life has had phases? What are they?

  66. Have you ever had to admit something to yourself that you didn't want to admit?

  67. What have you grown out of in the last few years?

  68. Is there anything in your life you think you’ll grow out of?

  69. What media helps when you’re upset?

  70. Have you ever been afraid you'll grow up to be like one or both of your parents? How so?

  71. Has there ever been a time where you ended up feeling unexpectedly close to someone?

  72. Who was the last person you confided in and how did it go?

  73. Who and what has been bringing you joy lately?

  74. Who are you trying to be more like? Less like?

  75. How often do you feel lonely?

  76. What habit are you proudest of developing?

  77. Are you looking forward to accomplishing anything?

  78. What fills you with energy?

  79. What characteristics of yours make you feel most confident?

  80. What was your last obsession?

  81. Where in your life did you used to not feel like you were “enough,” but now do?

  82. What are areas you’re learning to feel like “enough” in?

  83. What does really excellent emotional support look like for you?

  84. What romantic gestures from your past have meant the most to you?

  85. What does it mean to you to be cared for?

  86. Do you feel spiritual or religious, and if so does your spirituality or religiosity change the way you live?

  87. In which areas of your life are you gaining confidence?

  88. What in your life saps your energy and how do you recharge?

  89. In what ways are you a positive influence to those around you? Negative?

  90. What’s the last argument you won?

  91. Do your friends gas you up? How?

  92. Do you feel like your life path has become any clearer over the last few years?

  93. What’s something you find interesting about someone in the room?

  94. Who was the last person to inspire you that you don’t know? That you do know?

  95. What is the biggest change in yourself you attribute to your partner/closest friend?

  96. Which culture other than your own do you know the most about?

  97. Which culture other than your own do you feel most connected to?

  98. What’s your favorite evil company?

  99. What’s the hardest thing you do for fun?

  100. What are you learning to appreciate about yourself that you hadn’t before?